Pairmest
A private space for two.
A private space for two, with a small daily ritual that keeps you close.
Coming soon to iOS and Android. hello@pairmest.com
A question a day
One prompt, every day. Your partner's answer unlocks once you've written yours.
Your moments, in one place
A shared timeline of the photos and notes that are just yours.
The dates that matter
Anniversaries, plans, and a quiet countdown to the next one.
Just the two of you
No feed, no followers, no audience. A space with a door.
Frequently asked questions
Is it free?
Yes — Pairmest is free to use.
Do we both need the app?
Yes. Pairmest is a shared space, so it takes both of you to pair up — but you can open the app and look around on your own before your partner joins.
What if my partner doesn't join?
Nothing changes on your end. You are not paired with anyone until they accept your invite, so you are free to send a new one any time.
Can anyone else see our moments?
Pairmest is built as a private space for two: what you add is meant for you and your partner, never public, and never shared with advertisers.
How do I delete my account?
From inside the app, or by emailing us. Our account deletion page has the full steps.